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Created at 98/04/14
Mistakes are Chances
(10.25.98) The ruling ideology says:
"Everybody can make a mistake, ... but not twice!" This sentence sounds
as if every mistake made the second time is unforgivable, as if it were
avoidable the second time. So the fear of "twice made mistakes" grows,
and with it the fear of mistakes at all as you perhaps could do it twice.
But all I know about learning is that
you need a free mind for working up to experiences all events happening
to you. And if you have this bad fear you'll avoid events happen twice,
even if you didn't know why they happend the first time in this way as
they did.
For sure in life and much more in business
life mistakes can effect great damage. But where the heck are those other
people with their help who afterwards would have known and done it better,
if you need them? What kind of advice did they give you before? What kind
of help do they give to you for the second trial? If you are living in
an environment of wolves or sharks they would you let hang down, if you
are in an environment of partners they would decide with you together in
your way of doing it.
How do YOU feel if you have made
a mistake? I'm feeling very bad with any kind of mistakes and would like
to be perfect. But on the other side I know that others people don't like
any kind of perfectness ... with others.
The "human touch" of unperfectness is necessary
for being a member of a group. Otherwise they would let you make all decisions
... until you fail and fall down from your pedestal of perfectness. And
that would cause a kind of social death as with your way of trying to be
perfect you seemed to be a god in your own opinion.
(Is to be continued ...)
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